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Mary of Bethany

Portrait of Mary of Bethany

Mary of Bethany was the sister of Martha and Lazarus who lived in the village near Jerusalem. In Lukeโ€™s Gospel she sat at Jesusโ€™ feet to listen to his teaching instead of helping with household duties, and Jesus defended her choice as the one thing needed that would not be taken from her. In Johnโ€™s account she later anointed his feet with expensive nard perfume and wiped them with her hair days before the crucifixion; Jesus accepted the act as preparation for his burial and a sign of deep devotion. These episodes illustrate the biblical emphasis on attentive discipleship and sacrificial worship over mere activity or material concern.

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Biography

Era
New Testament (c. AD 30)
Nationality
Jewish
New Testament New Testament Era Woman John

Did You Know?

1

In first-century Jewish culture, Mary's decision to sit at Jesus' feet in the posture of a formal disciple was highly unconventional for women, who were typically excluded from such rabbinic instruction, yet Jesus explicitly affirmed her choice over Martha's domestic service.

2

The nard Mary used to anoint Jesus was sourced from the high Himalayas in India, requiring long-distance trade routes, and its half-liter quantity represented a sum equivalent to 300 denarii. Nearly a full year's wages for a laborer. Poured out in a single act at Simon the Leper's house.

3

John's Gospel places the anointing six days before Passover in Bethany, where Mary wiped Jesus' feet with her unbound hair, an intimate gesture normally reserved for servants or expressions of deep penitence, filling the house with fragrance as a prophetic sign of his burial.

4

Mary appears in the biblical text only in contexts of learning and devotion, never speaking a single recorded word, yet her actions are memorialized by Jesus himself as something to be recounted wherever the gospel is preached, underscoring her silent but pivotal role.

5

When Jesus delayed his arrival after Lazarus's death, Mary remained at home while Martha went out to meet him, but upon Jesus' summons she repeated the same foot posture seen in Luke 10, demonstrating consistent physical expressions of both study and grief across the accounts.

Key Passages

Mary Sits at Jesus' Feet

Luke 10:38-42

This passage shows that choosing to listen closely to Jesus brings lasting peace amid life's many demands.

N38ow it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.

39 And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesusโ€™ feet, and heard his word. 40 But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me. 41 And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: 42 But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.

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Mary Anoints Jesus

John 12:1-8

This passage shows how extravagant, humble love for Jesus honors his coming sacrifice above all else.

T1hen Jesus six days before the passover came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, which had been dead, whom he raised from the dead.

2 There they made him a supper; and Martha served: but Lazarus was one of them that sat at the table with him. 3 Then took Mary a pound of ointment of spikenard, very costly, and anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped his feet with her hair: and the house was filled with the odour of the ointment. 4 Then saith one of his disciples, Judas Iscariot, Simonโ€™s son, which should betray him, 5 Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor? 6 This he said, not that he cared for the poor; but because he was a thief, and had the bag, and bare what was put therein. 7 Then said Jesus, Let her alone: against the day of my burying hath she kept this. 8 For the poor always ye have with you; but me ye have not always.

Read full chapter: John 12 โ†’